WHY AM I STILL SINGLE concluding

Do i love myself?

One way of attracting love is loving and appreciating who you are. Do you love yourself? Scripture says love your neighbour as yourself. It simply means you cant love your neighbour without loving yourself first. This is not about being selfish, proud or self centred. But its about falling in love with your personality, appearance, looks, appreciating who God has created you to be. etc. A particular lady hated so much a part of her body which she felt was too big. She very much wished it was smaller, am sure if she had option then she would have gone for surgery. Amazingly, nobody ever talked about it to her until one day she read a book that talks about falling in love with your physical body and the writer particularly mentioned the part of her body she didn't like. Thankfully she changed her mindset and started loving herself as she is. Magically, people started commenting how beautifully she is with that size and today she is married and that is one of the things that attracted her husband to her? Three things loving yourself will do for you is..



1. it boosts your self confidence and self esteem thereby eradicating any form of inferiority complex. That way you wont cheapen yourself or allow anyone despise you.

2. It helps you love others too. If you see beauty in yourself you would much more see in others and it helps you maintain a healthy relationship with people.

3. When you love yourself, you very much attract more of that to you... remember you are addressed the way you dress.. have you dressed yourself with love?. Loving your neighbour as yourself means at least you love yourself first. So take your time and start loving who you are... love your size, height, color, appearance, shape etc. The one that will appreciate you the way you are will get to you when you start it first.



Do I respect people?

Respect is always reciprocal. First you need to respect yourself i.e having high regard for yourself not unto pride though. Also how much do you respect others. In every relationship, everybody deserve respect. Even a little child deserve respect from you to boost self confidence. Do you run people down because of how they look or appear? What if you are treated the same way you treat others how would you feel? If you have to say no to advances please do it respectfully in a way that the person will not feel like committing suicide.

Am I Hardworking?
Trust me nobody wants a lazy person as a spouse especially when it comes to generating funds. Remember the traditional addage that says "two hands washes better " God has invested too much on you for you to remain Idle. Think think think there is something you can do to avoid been a liability. Bros, Sis please get busy it can attract the right person to you.

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