WHY AM I STILL SINGLE?

 Excellent day beautiful people...
Lets talk about why some people are still single especially at a marriageable age... for all singles bordered or having this on their minds, look at the following questions though not limited to....

1. Am I available?
Some people are actually NOT available but they think they are. Some actions or way of life make you NOT available in the ‘Singles market’ which is actually over saturated. There are some mindsets you may have which unknown to you may be sending out vibes to men that you are not available eg Do you always walk around with this thought ‘ there are no good men/women anymore’ whilst praying for one? Honey, daz not going to work. As a (wo)man thinketh in his heart, SO IS SHE!!! Also if you are carrying emotional baggage, you may think you are available but you are not. ?

2. Are you accessible?
As a single person, you must be able to be reached. You
can’t be praying for a spouse and continually sit in your room under your bed, tz only mosquito that will see you and God. But God doesn’t wanna marry. Ain’t no eligible person gonna come under your bed and see you. Which is why it is good for instance to belong to a church and a service group. Too much stories of couples who met
whilst serving in church, but it's true. Being a member of the church ain’t enough especially if
you are in all those big churches. Chances that you would be seen are low when all you do is come in, worship and after service you just leave. Ah!!! Babe, how is that gonna work? Join a department/small unit/connect group/house
fellowship and let people SEE you and interact with

 3. Are u welcoming?
If you need to practice how to smile in front of a mirror, please do. Some ladies have a natural frowning face. A lot of men are not bold and they fear rejection so imagine they now gather courage to walk up to you and say hi or anything else to initiate conversation and you just size them up and down and are generally not very polite or welcoming. The guy will just change mouth, turn you to traffic warden and ask you for direction or to borrow bible or something else. Anything but what he was on his mind because your countenance is bad. Please greet people and respond warmly. He that hath friend must show
himself friendly. Recall Rebekah and how approachable and friendly she was to Abby’s servant and how she landed herself a rich young eligible blessed man..... TO BE CONTINUED....